When hearing aids no longer help: a father’s story
19. February 2019
Our happiness was short-lived though: when our second son, Hung, was born, we had not reckoned with the prospect of him having the same hearing problems as his brother. Hung also developed quite normally at first. At the age of two, he would cheerfully chat away, he loved to sing and he knew many songs. He would also pronounce the names of his grandparents clearly and distinctly. In April 2018, just after turning two, he began to mumble increasingly and responded to sounds less frequently. When we took him to an ENT doctor for an examination in June, we had his hearing tested – but we didn’t think anything could be wrong with his ears.
When the doctor told us that Hung has severe to profound progressive hearing loss like his brother, we were shocked and baffled. One child with hearing loss was only just manageable for us. But two at once – it made our world fall apart.
The doctor again advised us to buy hearing aids – which we did, even though it pushed us to the limits of our financial means. We didn’t even dare to consider the possibility of a CI. Like his big brother, we registered Hung for auditory-verbal therapy at the children’s hospital. The therapists there are highly dedicated. They knew about the Global Foundation For Children With Hearing Loss and Hear the World Foundation special program that donates cochlear implants for children in need. We applied, desperately hoping for this support.
When we learned that Hung had been accepted into the program, we cried tears of joy. For us, it meant that he has a chance to live a normal life. We hope that, after the operation and the activation, he will once again be able to hear his family’s voices: ours, his parents’, his grandparents’, his uncles’ and his aunts’ voices – and that he will answer when we call him. We hope that he learns to pronounce our names clearly again. And we hope that he will connect more with our family again, as well as with children of his age. At the moment, he simply can’t do that. The family supports him wherever possible, so that he will learn to speak properly and become more confident.
My dream: that my son will be able to hear the birds chirpingHearing the birds singing is something that I love so much. That’s why I’m longing for the moment when my son and I can both listen to the birds chirping, together. Hung also loves the birds. He often plays with animals and calls out to them. When he was smaller, he could pronounce the word ‘bird’ coherently, but after turning two, his speech was already so unclear that it was barely comprehensible anymore.
It was always our dream that our children would be able to hear the birds’ voices. If this small wish is fulfilled, greater wishes will also come true. That’s why we applied for this CI program. Our son should get a chance to speak – and to hear his family’s voices, as well as the other sounds in his much-loved home. First, he must perceive the simple things. Then, step by step, he will also discover the world.”
About the projectIn Vietnam, Hung is one of ten children with severe and profound hearing loss, for whom the Hear the World Foundation and Global Foundation For Children With Hearing Loss are providing support. Hear the World is donating the latest cochlear implants, the costs of surgery and associated surgical support, and audiological follow-up care. These children are also being given one year of auditory-verbal therapy by Vietnamese professionals
who have been trained by the Global Foundation For Children With Hearing Loss over the past several years in Vietnam. This means the families will have the essential components they require for their children to benefit fully from a cochlear implant. They will be able to hear optimally, learn to speak, go to school – and lead a life without limitations.